90s Rock & Alternative Wedding First Dance Songs for Couples

As wedding trends in Charlotte, North Carolina continue to evolve, many modern couples are embracing a retro vibe. As a 90s teen, I obsessed over the new alternative rock genre, listening to bands like Smashing Pumpkins and The Breeders on repeat.  I often pictured myself dancing with that special someone while The Sundays' cover of Wild Horses played in the background. If you’re searching for unique wedding first dance songs or 90s wedding music ideas this list highlights some of my favorite options from the decade. 

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Ice Cream – Sarah McLachlan

Soft, emotional, and intimate, “Ice Cream” creates a quiet first dance moment that works beautifully in Charlotte’s romantic venues, from Uptown ballrooms to scenic estate weddings. Its gentle tempo allows couples to focus on connection rather than choreography.

Power of Two – Indigo Girls

A song centered on partnership and balance, “Power of Two” resonates strongly with couples planning meaningful, intentional weddings in the Charlotte area. It’s an ideal choice for those who value authenticity over tradition.

Cowboy Take Me Away – The Chicks

This 90s favorite crosses genres effortlessly. It’s especially popular for outdoor and rustic-style weddings throughout the Charlotte region, offering a relaxed rhythm and lyrics that speak to building a life together.

Into Your Arms (Acoustic Version) – The Lemonheads

Stripped down and heartfelt, this acoustic version is perfect for couples wanting a simple, nostalgic first dance. It fits beautifully into intimate Charlotte weddings where the focus is on emotion rather than spectacle.

Wild Horses – The Sundays

Dreamy and ethereal, this 90s alternative cover pairs well with Charlotte’s historic venues and romantic spaces. Its softness and emotional depth create a memorable, cinematic first dance moment.

Runaway – The Corrs

With its gradual build and romantic melody, “Runaway” works wonderfully for couples planning elegant weddings throughout Charlotte and surrounding North Carolina areas. It transitions seamlessly into the evening when mixed properly by an experienced wedding DJ.

Colorblind – Counting Crows

One of the most emotional first dance songs of the 1990s, “Colorblind” is a favorite among Charlotte couples seeking a deeply personal and introspective moment before the party begins.

Beautiful – The Smashing Pumpkins

This softer alternative rock track offers tenderness without losing its edge. It’s a great option for couples who love 90s music but still want a first dance song that feels romantic and timeless.

About a Girl (MTV Unplugged) – Nirvana

Unexpected yet warm, the unplugged version of this song strips away the grit and reveals sincerity.

Kiss Me (Acoustic Version) – Sixpence None the Richer

The acoustic version of “Kiss Me” leans fully into romance while keeping that iconic 90s charm. It’s a popular choice for Charlotte weddings that want a light, joyful, and nostalgic first dance moment.

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If you’re looking for a Charlotte wedding DJ who understands how to blend nostalgic music with modern wedding flow, I’d love to help you create a first dance — and a reception — that feels completely you.